To the women who have put everyone first for the last 40+ years...

I'm Giving You Permission To Cut To The Front Of The Line.

Isn't It About Time?

Hell Yes!  

It's possible, you've been living your life for everyone else for so long now, you've lost touch with your identity. Perhaps you've raised a family, built a business or climbed the corporate ladder and have been finding your purpose in that role - but now what? Roles change and who we are starts to feel unneeded - have you ended up feeling a bit lost? Or like you just don't know where to go from here?


The roles of our lives do change and they are not who you really are...


I'm here to tell you, you don't have to keep doing the same things just because you always have. 

Are You Craving Something Different?

I want you to look back on the decades and appreciate all you’ve done and how far you’ve come, AND know you have so many years of awesome things ahead.  There are amazing possibilities to be explored.

  • Your deferred dreams can be brought back into focus.
  • Passions for creativity can be renewed.
  • Your personal hunger for achievement can finally be given free reign!

All the things we laid aside to focus on building a life - they weren't meant to collect dust forever and Hallelujah, Now Is The Time!!


I want to take you by the hand and help you figure out what you want to pick back up again or discover anew and then choose what your next steps will be!

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A Little About Me.

Hi, I’m Val Selby and I come from a long line of women who put everyone else in their life ahead of themselves.


I fell into those same patterns I watched my Mom go through and once my kids were grown, I was completely lost.


I have no regrets for putting my family (mostly) first, but when I hit the empty nest I had no idea what my role in life was anymore. 

I've Been On A Journey

I've been figuring things out and I'm having a blast along the way. 

  • I’ve gone Jeeping with some women all on my own. (Gasp, no hubby to bail me out of tight spots and steep downhills!)
  • I’ve gone on business trips and coaching clinics on my own to improve myself and skills I love.
  • I embraced fishing as a good way to get a tan all summer long.
  • I’ve reconnected with old friends going through the same point in life.
  • After a lifetime of vacations built around the family, my hubby and I finally took a vacation all around MY interests!  I got to run a half marathon in Vegas! (We’re doing it again in November.)

I’m no longer afraid to say yes to me and I love trying new things. 


A big thing is I'm no longer afraid to fail. I have pages full of stuff I want to try and some of it I'm really going to suck at.


Guess, what? That's ok because I'm also finding things I had no idea I was amazing at!


I’m excited for the years to come and I wouldn't be if I hadn't made the choice to finally make myself a priority.


I'm finally stacking up adventures and accomplishments, instead of regrets.


It’s time for you to change your mindset and realize YOU are a priority too. You deserve all the happiness you can grab. 


Let's Choose Happiness
Over Constant Frustration!


  • Frustration because you put everyone else first and they don’t even recognize your sacrifices.
  • Frustration that you are stuck in the same cycle: get up, work, clean, tv, bed…wash, rinse, repeat.
  • Frustration because you don’t know what you want to do with the rest of your day, let alone the rest of your life and you have plenty of life left to live.

As a woman on the other side of forty, I’ve been in the same boat.


The frustration leads to anger because you can’t get what you want out of the rest of your life if you don’t know what the hell you want!

Introducing the
"WHAT DO I WANT?" Workshop

what do i want workshop

I'm asking you to commit 10 days to improving your happiness and figuring out what's next


The What Do I Want? Workshop is an investment in you. Imagine if you were excited to get up tomorrow because you know exactly what you want to do and the direction you want to go.


I want you to be EXCITED as you look ahead!

What Are We Going To DO?

  • Look at the choices you've been making, because they really are YOUR choices.
  • Spot the comfort zones you're hiding in, let's make them uncomfortable!
  • Celebrate where you've been, owning your amazingness in every role you've ever taken on.
  • Notice how you've been defining yourself through the years.
  • Create a new vision for your amazing tomorrows.
  • Drop doubts that hold you back and dream bigger than ever!
  • Realize, once and for all, you've never needed permission - but you've got it anyways!

I'm Guiding You Through A Complete Inventory Of What You Really Want.

You will immediately download the What Do I Want Workbook to guide you to clarity and watch the Day 1 video.


You're going to lean into questions you haven't given yourself time to consider in years and I promise, I won't let you sell out on yourself - not even a little bit - because NOW's the time to go for YOUR dreams!


Are You Ready To Continue Your Life Story In BIG, BOLD & AWESOME WAYS? 

Let's DO this together - I can't freaking wait!


To recap what I'm offering you, our 2 week journey includes:

  • The printable What Do I Want Workbook.
  • Short, LIVE videos from me, designed to inspire action.

This is a self-study workshop and you will have instant access to the workbook and videos, so you won't have to wait to begin.


You'll walk away with more clarity than you've ever known,

leading to greater happiness and life satisfaction!


Join NOW for only $27

Remember, happiness is a choice. Live with no regrets.

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