It's time to be who you want to be!

Every woman that has done amazing things started off scared to make a big jump in their life.  Read stories about women that have been there and created big and little things.

Then take action to owning your bold life.

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I believe you are a priority.

You've built a life you are proud of and now it's time for you.

Been Told You Are TOO..?

Too loud? You should use your inside voice.

Too quiet? You should speak up for yourself more.

Too shy? You should join every conversation.

Too blunt? You should keep it to yourself, no one wants to hear the truth.

I hit a point that I was done having everyone tell me how I should be. I was miserable changing who I truly was by who I was around.

No longer shall you be shamed for your personality. You are going to own who you are and be proud of it.

I want you to find your DAMMITs so you can share them with the world. The world craves the real you and I crave you bringing it to them. So join in for free right now.

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You want to enjoy the life you've created...

I promise you 

there is so much more to come!

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Owning Our DAMMITs

You have things about your personality that make you YOU. For many these are things that you've been told over the years you should change

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My Mission

To assist you as you give yourself permission to do all the things you have dreamed about.

There is still plenty of time to accomplish your dreams!

Work With Me

Focusing on YOU is the best gift you can ever give yourself.

You've put everyone else first. Work with me now to become a priority in your own life.

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What Do I Want? workshop

Let's choose happiness over constant frustration.

Reconnect with dreams and goals forgotten.

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Bold Life Coaching

It's time for you to live boldly.

You deserve what makes you happy and it’s time to go get it.

What Others Say


I wish I had found you when I was a young firewife with a bunch of kids, running around like a crazy person because he was gone so often.?

Instead I found you later and rather than helping me navigate those early years you helped me come to terms with the last years of his career.



I recently participated in Val’s Me Month and What Do I Want? workshops and she was such a help with pushing me out of my comfort zone, so that I could find the real me and what I want to do now that I am an empty-nester. She is easy to talk to and can listen to you without judgment. 


I'm thankful for the workshops Val Selby puts on. She's really helped me think things through and make some real changes in my life. I'm calmer and happier and things are definitely looking up.


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