It's time to be who you want to be!

Every woman that has done amazing things started off scared to make a big jump in their life.  Read stories about women that have been there and created big and little things.

Then take action to owning your bold life.

you are bold ebook

I believe you are a priority.

You've built a life you are proud of and now it's time for you.

You want to enjoy the life you've created...

I promise you 

there is so much more to come!

So Now What?

Years of putting others first in your life can leave you with a major question...

What do I want?

Embrace the fact you just don't know anymore and lets figure it out.

In December we are going to find what you want. Things you have completely forgetting about.

It's time to take your turn!

It's starts with the What Do I Want? workshop

what do i want workshop

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more than just presents

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. No, I'm not, you already know this. But, if you are stressed out right now you surely need a reminder.

Between the end of the year work obligations, Christmas parties, and gift shopping, the weeks leading up to Christmas can be a very busy and stressful time. Every day in December is just a count down to Christmas day and it goes fast.

family issues holidays

Families can be a wonderful blessing, or they can be a major pain in the ass during the holidays. Frankly I've seen mine, be both at the same time.

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My Mission

To assist you as you give yourself permission to do all the things you have dreamed about.

There is still plenty of time to accomplish your dreams!

Work With Me

Focusing on YOU is the best gift you can ever give yourself.

You've put everyone else first. Work with me now to become a priority in your own life.

what do i want workshop

What Do I Want? workshop

Let's choose happiness over constant frustration.

Reconnect with dreams and goals forgotten.

bold life coaching

Bold Life Coaching

It's time for you to live boldly.

You deserve what makes you happy and it’s time to go get it.

What Others Say


I wish I had found you when I was a young firewife with a bunch of kids, running around like a crazy person because he was gone so often.?

Instead I found you later and rather than helping me navigate those early years you helped me come to terms with the last years of his career.



I recently participated in Val’s Me Month and What Do I Want? workshops and she was such a help with pushing me out of my comfort zone, so that I could find the real me and what I want to do now that I am an empty-nester. She is easy to talk to and can listen to you without judgment. 


I'm thankful for the workshops Val Selby puts on. She's really helped me think things through and make some real changes in my life. I'm calmer and happier and things are definitely looking up.


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