It's time to be who you want to be!

Every woman that has done amazing things started off scared to make a big jump in their life.  Read stories about women that have been there and created big and little things.

Then take action to owning your bold life.

you are bold ebook

I believe you are a priority.

You've built a life you are proud of and now it's time for you.

You want to enjoy the life you've created...

I promise you 

there is so much more to come!

Find Your Dammits!

My new workshop will be a live experience on November 6th & 7th. Why pay full price when you can save $30?

Join the Great Big Life & Biz bundle upgrade offer and get access to Dammit, I Like This About Myself plus over $3500 in other products!

This bundle includes a full year of access to the core products AND monthly coaching.

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meeting goals

Some of you may have long-term retirement goals; others may have goals related to your personal life or to your health. But goals, and especially long-term ones, can be difficult to achieve.

It's a lot of work and a kick butt plan if you want to nail it.

life purpose

Don’t Live In Mediocrity

“You’re not just deferring your dreams, you’re missing out on your next great purpose in life!”

I believe you are never too old to go for any goal.

You still have decades left and you don’t want to live them out in mediocrity. What a waste!

can't please others

we all crave approval

If you’re passive and go along with what everyone else wants, you may temporarily feel good because you received validation. But, the next day, the whole process starts again. That’s an exhausting way to live.

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My Mission

To assist you as you give yourself permission to do all the things you have dreamed about.

There is still plenty of time to accomplish your dreams!

Work With Me

Focusing on YOU is the best gift you can ever give yourself.

You've put everyone else first. Work with me now to become a priority in your own life.

what do i want workshop

What Do I Want? workshop

Let's choose happiness over constant frustration.

Reconnect with dreams and goals forgotten.

bold life coaching

Bold Life Coaching

It's time for you to live boldly.

You deserve what makes you happy and it’s time to go get it.

What Others Say


I wish I had found you when I was a young firewife with a bunch of kids, running around like a crazy person because he was gone so often.?

Instead I found you later and rather than helping me navigate those early years you helped me come to terms with the last years of his career.



I recently participated in Val’s Me Month and What Do I Want? workshops and she was such a help with pushing me out of my comfort zone, so that I could find the real me and what I want to do now that I am an empty-nester. She is easy to talk to and can listen to you without judgment. 


I'm thankful for the workshops Val Selby puts on. She's really helped me think things through and make some real changes in my life. I'm calmer and happier and things are definitely looking up.


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